Escort Etiquette Guide

What to Expect

When contacting an escort, it is a good idea to provide some information about you. A polite introduction is very helpful as part of getting through any decent screening process from a quality escort.

• Be polite and respectful at all times; in person, on the phone and in emails. The only exception to this can be if you have agreed in advance with an escort a scenario where you want to play a specific role.
• Be discreet.
• If you are going to a private residence, ask them for instructions on how to get in and meet.
• If you have any allergies: animals, scents, etc – make sure you tell the escort. If you have an aversion to tobacco smoke or smokers you probably want to check that too.
• If the escort is visiting your home or hotel room, ensuring it is clean, and tidy is a good way to start an appointment.
• Don't ask about an escort's personal life or her professional activities, if she volunteers information, fine. Use common sense. In the same way, change the subject if you are asked questions, you are not prepared to answer.

Donations

• In most cases you will be expected to provide your donation at the start of the appointment. It is not normal to get a request to wire or send money in advance, so be suspicious if this is asked for.
• Don't try to negotiate the amount of the donation on arrival, in this case you should expect to be asked to leave. Assume rates are non-negotiable unless there is good reason to assume otherwise and you negotiate in advance.
• If you are extending the period, you can politely discuss how much more you should donate but don't automatically assume you will be offered a discount.
• Respect the time you have booked. Most professional escorts do not like to have to ask you to leave and many will not 'watch the clock. However, you are 'buying time' and shouldn't expect anything for free so respect what you agreed in advance.
• If you must cancel an appointment, do so as far in advance as possible. If you changed your mind, just tell the escort – it does happen. Don't make appointments and then not turn up as this is just rude.
• Don't make promises you are not going to keep, whether it is for a future appointment, gift or review. You don't owe the escort anything more than the donation and there's no need to promise anything else. Better to be straightforward.

Personal Hygiene

You should approach visiting an escort in the same way you would for going on a date. Here's a list of tips compiled from talking to several professionals:

• Take a shower before the appointment or at the start of the appointment.
• Trim your nails and toenails; no-one likes getting scratched.
• Trimming or shaving any areas you might want licked or kissed, as this shows that you might like this to happen.
• Don't use cologne, deodorant or perfume on any area that you might expect to be licked or sucked.
• Mouthwash or chewing gum is often appreciated, as is staying away from strongly smelling foods, such as garlic, onions or curry.

Common Sense - Use It!

• If you are not sure you should be doing this or thinking about this, don't do it.
• Always treat providers like human beings (they are and never forget that).
• Make sure you know local laws and don't get arrested.
• Don't do anything which feels uncomfortable - if you feel uncomfortable or in danger, leave.